Post by fredrussell on Dec 28, 2006 14:38:02 GMT -5
Hey is another good memory I have with Jerry:
We decided to go hiking one night. This particular night happened to be pitch black, couldn't see your hand in front of your face dark. So we headed out, me Jerry and Claude.
Jerry was all excited about this place we could go that in his words was "...cool man, cool...". So we started climbing up this hill (well, ok, we might have been drinking quite a bit too).
Seemed like we had climbed forever and it seemed like it was geting steeper and steeper until we came to this cave. We then built a fire and ended up passing out. When the sun came through the next morning and woke me up, I poked my head out of the cave and we had climbed a straight cliff to get to that cave and I woke Jerry up and was like man how the ell did we get up here and how we getting down? He looked over and said "..man go back to sleep, it's too early to make that fall.."
He just seemed to have a way with words.
As I was walking it happens that I did see, a Levi's pocket lying on the ground. Lying in misery.It sat there all alone sort of like a loner thinking of the better days when it was with it's owner.To all the places they walked and the sites they'd see.To sexy women they would talk.That is how it used to be. As I walked I could hear it curse the ripper "Why me! Why not the beltloop or the zipper!
Hey daddy, were still missing you so much, actually more and more each day. Im tryin to get mom to take me to your grave, but it just hurts her so much and you can tell. People tell me all the time that i look and act just like you, some even tell me that i should be proud to walk around with the face of Jerry Neace, it makes me so happy to know that everyone loved and cared and respected you so much, there wasnt a better dad in the whole world. I love you daddy.
This is rexs mom I just wanted you girls and your mom to know that I will allway be here for you and that your dad was prouder of you kids than anything else in his life you were everything to him.I know you will grow up and do great things you will be in my prayers love Jamie
Thanks Jamie....we know that he cared deeply about us, sometimes when we think about how he left us we get so mad at him, but then we think about how much he hurt the whole time and the smile he had on his face, it helps sometimes then others it doesnt do anything but makes me madder, its hard to explain, but thanks again.
Hey daddy, sorry i havent been on in a while, things just got so hard there for a while. I'm now to where i cant stand be around anyone, it drives me crazy, I miss you so much, id give anything to have you back right now. Everything I do reminds me of you. You're everywhere in Hazard, sometimes it helps, other times it doesnt. I feel like i have noone to talk to. People all the time say that if you need anything or just need to talk to call them, but whats funny is that when you do, their never there for you. I just miss you so so much. I love you daddy. Good-Night
Post by sweetangel on Jan 14, 2007 21:02:01 GMT -5
Hey Uncle Jerry, i miss you ive never wrote to u on here its taken me a while i love you uncle jerry, Me, jerica, tosha,crystal,and aunt sissy came to see you today.it hurts really bad but i have no idea how jerica feels all i know is that i miss you and love you so much i heard a song that was really a blessing for me its called CRY OUT TO JESUS. I feel like i have to be strong for jerica when she crys i dont know why but i just think she has no one else.i know that one day ill see you in Heaven again. I also know that your not hurting anymore well uncle Jerry i love you and im gonna go for now see you soon.May your soul reat in peace. Love ALways Kateri.
Hey Daddy, We went to your grave the other day, it looks nice, they have your tombstone up now. Everybody keeps tellin me to keep myself busy and i wont think of you as much, so i tried, i went to basketball game the other, when i came home after evryone fell asleep, i sat in the kitchen in front of the stove and cried all night. I miss you so much, i want you to come back to us and things to go back to the way they were. The only thing that helps sometimes is for me to think that you're happy now. Sometimes i just sit in my room in your wheel chair and look at your pictures and listen to the c.d. from your funeral. I love you so much daddy, and i miss you more and more everyday. I wish you were here. Love us always daddy, Jerica P.S. I love you so much daddy.
Hey Uncle Jerry, just thinkin of you and missin you. I just wish there was something that I could do to help Dee and The girls. I know they are having a hard time and they are missin you really bad. You guys were a close family and you and Dee were all the girls have ever really had to count on. I know Dee is doing her best to be strong for the girls and she is always thinking of the times you all shared together. Try to comfort them in some way and let them know you are always right there.I love you.I miss you.
Hello there Jerry, I thought I would come on and tell you hello. We all down here is missing you and Harrison and all the rest of the family. Boy, I tell you Jerry it is hard to give up someone you love and I know you and Deanna loved each as me and Harrison did. But one thing for sure you two are pain free now no more pain and suffering . You sure had your share of it. Jerry you and Harrison watch over us down here because we really need it.
Tell Harrison not to worry over us we are doing pretty fair. But I know you and him both does. Jerry you know Deanna and them girls will be ok because Deanna is a strong minded person and a good worker.
Well Jerry I'M gonna go for now I will be back later. You know me I could talk forever to you. Well, I want bother you any longer so goodnite my boy. I love you . YOUR AUNT FAYE
Hey Daddy, sorry I havent been on here in a while, i dont get on very much anymore. I miss you so much, its finally starting to dawn on me that your not coming back to us. I keep waiting on your phone call everyday but it never comes. Somedays its easier and then some days i cant stand to get out of bed. I get so mad at you sometimes cuz i think you were selfish for leaving us but then i think about how much you hurt and i realize that im the one being selfish for wanting you to come back. But I just miss you so much. I miss everything about you, and i would give anything just to talk to you or see you one more time. I love you so much daddy. good-night(hugs and kisses)
Yeah, its sweet isnt it that even through the hardest times my parents still loved each other more than anything, and there were many many women who were so jealous of my mom cuz she had my dads love and they didnt. But she loved him just as much as he loved her. He never done her wrong no matter what people say, and he turned out to be the best dad and husbadn anyone could ever have. I love you daddy
Post by deannaneace01 on Feb 4, 2007 17:32:09 GMT -5
Hey Jerry, it's me. I am sorry that I haven't written in awhile, but it is really hard to say things to you on a computer instead of face to face. I miss the look in your eyes when I would walk into the room and the smile on your face when I would wake up in the morning next to you and you saying our "famous wolf and red rose poem" I guess it became our trademark after awhile. I love you so much and I don't think that life will ever be "liveable" again. I try to stay busy and not think about you being gone, but that is impossible. You are on my mind every waking minute of the day. People get on this website and write to you and that makes me feel better because I know you were loved by a lot of people. Some I remember, and some I don't, but I hope everyone knows and remembers that Jerica is on this website a lot and she reads the things that people say and how they felt about you, so she knows how much you were loved too. She misses you sooooo much. I think I lost my feelings inside and out when I lost you. My soul mate is gone and it is so hard to wake up every morning and get out of bed without you. I would give anything in the world if I could just see your beautiful eyes and your adoring grin one more time. I know other people have lost loved ones, so have I, but there is no pain in the world greater than losing you. I never thought that you would give up on me. I know how hard you fought and I know how hard you tried, I just wish that in some way I would know what I am supposed to do now because the only thing I ever knew or ever done was you. Maybe things will improve, but I don't see much room for that without you, I am lost. I love you, my baby, and I miss you terribly. People tell me that time heals all wounds, but the wound that was inflicted when you left me not only placed a hole in my heart, it took my heart and soul from my body. I will never be whole again. I love you, Jerry, and I always will.
Shawntrel,thank you and i did take it the wrong way but i didnt realize it was you, im so afraid that people are going to come on here and say stuff about my dad instead of just letting me remember him the way i knew him, but everyone knows that he loved us almost as much as we loved him. Thanks again. I love you daddy and i miss you.
HEY JERRY I JUST WANTED TO WRITE YOU AND TELL YOU I MISS YOU SO MUCH !I MISS YOU CALLING ME AND SAYING ITS BOB FROM BOBS BOUNCING BABY BURGERS YOU ALWAYS MADE ME LAUGH .YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH RICKEY MISSES YOU WE TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME.DEE IS LOST WITHOUT YOU SHE IS TRUELY A GREAT LADY AND YOUR GIRLS ARE SO PRECIOUS I LOVE THEM SO MUCH . JERRY YOU WERE LUCKY TO HAVE HAD SOMEONE LIKE DEE BUT YOU KNEW THAT . WELL I HAVE TO GO TORI IS WANTING TO GO TO BED WE LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH THANKS FOR ALWAYS TAKING UP FOR ME !LOVE YOU LOTS MELISSA
Hey daddy, its me again, i miss you so much, we went to the graveyard the other day and someone had stolen your white flowers off of your tombstone, we went and bought more though. My 16th birthday is coming up in 5 months and 6 days. i dont even want to celebrate it cuz your not going to be there...i looked forward to you being there and watching me get my licenses so much, after all you are the one who taught me how to drive. I just think about all the stuff that your going to miss and it breaks my heart. I have to go daddy, i love you so much.
Post by sweetangel on Feb 11, 2007 18:55:26 GMT -5
Hey Uncle Jerry...i wanted to tell u that I L0VE YOU AND MISS U BIG BUNCHES...WOW WE REALLY MISS YOU EXPECALLY AUNT SISSY WELL UNCLE JERRY MOMMY SAID ITS TIME TO GET OFF HERE SO ILL GET ON HERE LATER AND TELL YA STUFF...........WE LOVE U AND MISS U ( LOVE U UNCLE JERRY LOVE KATERI
Hey daddy, its me. Just thought that i would get on here and tell you how ive been. I was talking to sissy the other day and i asked her why so wasnt taking this as hard as i was and she told me that she just tried not to think about it. And what everyone doesnt understand is that its hard for me not to think about it cuz everyday after school i was the one who went to the hospital and helped you or came home and helped you, and i miss that more than anything in this world. And im so sick right now but everyone time that i get sick they just say that its cuz im depressed. I miss you so much, and i want more than anything to be with you again, no one understands how i feel, i know people lose their dads everyday but no one went through with them as much as we went through with you, and its hard not doing that everyday, i still sit and wait for your phone call everyday. I miss you so much and i love you more than anything in this world. Ill talk to you later. Bye daddy
Girls, I know what your going through. I was 15 when my Dad passed away. I it extremely hard but remember it will get better. You're all going through alot. Try to think of what your Dad would have wanted for you. That's what keep me going and is one of the reasons I went to college. He always made me promise I would go on to College. I went to school with your mom and she is a wonderful person. You are both very lucky to have such a good mother and father. Cherish the time you had with him and keep him in your hearts forever but don't give up on your lives.